Our Engagement Party

by - May 16, 2019

as most of you are aware, my fiancé and i got engaged in October last year. since then i had been busily working away at planning our engagement party.
we had our engagement party on Saturday March the 2nd 2019 and it turned out perfectly.

i thought i would share some details and photos from the night and hopefully inspire some of you future brides planning your engagement parties!

the party was hosted at a venue as we didn't have room in either of our backyards to host our guest list. we had roughly around 130 people attend, these were a mix of our family and closest friends.
it was a cocktail style party which i thought would work best for our budget and for the people we were inviting.

overall the night was great and everything ran smoothly and according to plan.
my decoration choices and balloon arrangements turned out exactly how envisioned them too. the cake and cupcakes turned out perfectly; i couldn't have been happier with them!

i didn't really have a set 'theme', i just wanted it to look elegant and a little rustic. gold, white and black were the main colours i worked around. i also added some floral accents in aswell (on the invite, signage and cake).

here is a quick rundown of the details of the night:


Details

Invites
- i made these myself on photoshop then got them printed on 300gsm linen paper at officeworks. it was super cheap to do it this way, compared to buying a pre-made one!

Theme
- no exact theme, just elegant and a little rustic.

Colours
- gold, white & black

People
- 130

Event Run Time
- 7.00pm to 12.00am 

Favours
- for favours we had cookies with stamped fondant to add a personalised touch. these were gifted by my wonderful friend Trang - @Finecakesandpastries

Frames/Signage
- i made the all signs myself on photoshop using the same flower/theme from our invitation. we had a sign for the guestbook with instructions and one for the favours with a thankyou message. i purchased the frames for around $10 each from BigW.

Food & Drink
- we went with subsidised drinks and had platters of cocktail/finger food which was walked around by waiters. drinks were subsidised at $3 for beer and wine, with sprits at $5 and soft drinks free.  we had around 15 platters that were walked around from 7.45pm - 9.15pm.

Decorations
-  i tried to keep the decorations pretty simple with some gold and white garlands around the room.
- i also printed polaroid sized photos of us from over the years and hung them on a wall on some twine with little pegs. this created a great talking/viewing point!
- i had midi sized light up marquee letters for our initials. these went on the gift/guestbook table.
- the venue also lent us a wooden back drop for photos which turned out to tie the whole room together in the end. 

Balloons
- the balloons were done by a local party supplier and i was really happy with how they turned out.
- i had 5 arrangements: 2 big, 3 smaller and then 1 large confetti balloon
- the arrangements had foil, confetti and normal latex balloons (gold foil hearts, clear with gold confetti, white and gold latex).
- the large confetti balloon had different sized gold confetti in it and a black tassel. we also got this one personalized, it read "our engagement 2/3/2019".
- i set the 2 large arrangements up next to the cake table and the 3 smaller arrangements around the room. With the stand alone confetti balloon next to the photo area.

Cake
- i could not have been anymore happier with how the cake and cupcakes turned out!! it was exactly as i had imagined.
- my friends mum made the cake and cupcakes for us and literally drove 3 hours to deliver them! she is amazing!!!!
- we had a naked cake with a dark chocolate drip with a vanilla sponge and chocolate butter cream layers.
- i got a customized black acrylic cake topper from Etsy (by CandyBarSydney).
- i purchased the flowers from Kmart and we just cut and organised them how we wanted to! this was a super cheap way to do it!!
- the cupcakes were all chocolate however i had a mix of chocolate and vanilla frosting and they were to die for!!!
- i purchased gold and black glitter heart cupcake toppers from Ebay. i used the gold on the chocolate frosted cupcakes and the black on the vanilla frosted cupcake. this contrast was really effective.

Guestbook
- we chose to do a polaroid guest book as we thought it would be nice to have photos along with peoples messages. this way worked well and turned out to be really funny, however a lot of people didn't end up signing the guestbook which was annoying but oh well.
- i picked up the guestbook from my local department store (i think it was around $25). i liked this particular one because it had two columns on every page, which meant our guests could stick the photo on the left and write on the right.
- we used a Fujiflim Instax 8 Camera which i already had for years and just purchased bulk film from eBay for around $80 for 100 sheets.
- i got washi tape in our theme colours from the local stationary shop to stick the photos down.
- i printed out some instructions for the guests and stuck them into a photo frame so it looked a little more elegant. i also made sure i printed some instructions on how to change the film to go on the table. (i also had my sister and myself checking the camera paper supply throughout the night)
- this was definitely a more pricey way to do a guestbook but i think it worked out great.

Cardbox
- after seeing the prices of pre-made card boxes i decided to make my own. i bought the box from Kmart for $12 (it was a jewellery box) and then the 'cards' decal from Etsy for $7. i am so happy how it turned out and definitely will be using it again and again!

i think i have covered everything! (if not, feel free to message)
if you would like any supplier details, then please message me on insta or leave a comment below! 
xxx




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